Mandy is a 21 year old girl
who will give you advice on anything you're wondering about.
So if you have a problem with the wife, need a girls opinion
on sex or anything else that goes on in your life, simply send
in your questions and she will answer them right here on this
page.
Send questions to: alpha-camel@telia.com
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Anatomy
NEW QUESTION:
My girlfriend and I had
unprotected sex the other day...and something weird is now
happening. It wasn't our first time, but she says she has an odd
substance coming out of her. She said that it's either not blood,
or that it's blood mixed with something else because it's
thicker than normal blood. This isn't the first time this has
happened. It happened a few months ago as well after unprotected
sex. Is this a sign of anything? Should we be concerned?
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| Your girlfriend
needs to get to a doctor right away. It could be as innocent as
a yeast infection or it could be some kind of STD. Either way,
the earlier you know the better.
Mandy (S)expert |
NEW QUESTION:
Hi Mandy. My wife, 35, blonde and beutiful, is
curious about being with a woman and we are going to plan a trip to
Las Vegas to make it happen. Sound great? well theres more - She
also wants her first experience to be a threesome and wants me to
penetrate the other woman.. I'm very excited about it also but must
admit that I am feeling very nervous. I love my wife and don't want to
mess things up, if she were to have regrets the next day. What
she says she wants now may not be what she really wants tomorrow.
Help? Do I do it?
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| If you do
it then make sure the threesome is all about HER. Focus mainly or
completely on her and not the other girl. If you're worried then maybe
you should make sure the other girl is a strict lesbian or even a dyke.
You know your wife. If she is a fickle person and constantly changing
her mind about things then it's probably not a good idea to even go
through with it.
Mandy (S)expert |
NEW QUESTION:
Hey Mandy, I have been going out with my
girlfriend for over a year now, and we just had sex for the first time
last week...I know you'll tell me she's lying, but i am 100% positive
she's never masturbated before. We had sex, and as luck would have it,
I have an eight inch penis, and she's really tight and sensitive. I
was afraid I was hurting her the whole time even though she said no,
just keep going, cause it was really tight and I could only get it
halfway in. Is she just gonna get broken in after awhile, or is there
something I should do to help her?
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| It will get easier and
easier every time. Think of the vagina as a brand new hair elastic.
The first few times you use it you might have a hard time getting all
your hair into it. Eventually some of the elasticity wears out and it
gets more comfortable to wear. Just take it easy the first few times.
If she says she's not in too much pain then everything is fine. It's
possible that she hasn't masturbated before. Not everyone (especially
women) are as in touch with their body as your might think. Lisa Ling
(formally of The View) didn't even know where her clitoris was until
they had a show about female anatomy.
Mandy (S)expert |
NEW QUESTION:
Im 18 and have started university this year and have spotted these two
girls that walk around during lunch breaks and stuff. Well, my
question is.. do girls always expect or want the guy to come up and
talk to them and maybe make a fool of himself, or is it like if the
girl doesnt come up to you she just isnt interested? Thanks in advance.
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| If you're not
pestering the girls or being a big jerk it's always flattering to have
a guy make a move. If a girl doesn't make a move it doesn't mean she's
not interested. She might not have even noticed you yet. I remember
having crushes on guys I've been in contact with many times before
noticing they were cute or interesting. Some girls are shy and a lot
of girls still have the old-fashioned notion that the guy should make
the first move.
Mandy (S)expert |
NEW QUESTION:
Hey mandy I met this girl a few days ago
and shes a little bit to young for me but I still like her LOTS shes
pretty smart well you get the point so what should i do ask her out on
a date? thanx
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| If she's a minor and
you are not then it is a BAD idea. The older two people are the bigger
an age gap they can get away with. If you are both under under 18 then
3-4 years of a difference is ok but any more than that might look
weird. Just be prepared for some hassle from her parents if that is
the case.
Mandy (S)expert |
NEW QUESTION:
Hey Mandy, my girl wants me to lick her
pussy, should I? If I make her ride my cock to hard will something
happen?
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| If you are comfortable
with licking her pussy you might find you enjoy it. Start with a 69
position so you can both get some pleasure. If your girl is careful
while she rides you it shouldn't matter how hard it is. Just be
careful about your penis bending. It happens. Stop if you feel ANY
pain.
Mandy (S)expert |
NEW QUESTION:
Their is a girl at my school I like
named mandy. Funny, but she is a hot dominican girl and I heard rumors
that she is a hoe and that everyone has gone through her. I am a
virgin. SAD, but I wanna get with her, plus she is dominican and I
have never talked to her. Can you help? plus i am fat and have a 7
inch dick. Will the size of both hinder me in chances? and i am shy
big time.
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| I remember high school.
Sometimes the rumors spread faster than any actual knowledge. That's
what's really sad. Not the fact that you are a virgin. I am willing to
bet this girl isn't as big a slut as her peers make her out to be.
You'll always get further by showing some respect. Could the reason
for your shyness be because you feel you are fat? Personally, I think
a guy could get away with a few extra pounds if he is still handsome
and confident. I've seen girls go crazy over idiots that look like
apes just because they carry themselves like they own the world.
Getting into a regular workout routine is a good way to both lose some
pounds and boost your confidence.
Mandy (S)expert |
NEW QUESTION:
Hey Mandy, is something wrong
if one boob is bigger than the other?
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| This is
quite common actually. Especially when they are still growing. Chances
are you are the only person that notices. You can always adjust your
bra straps accordingly.
Mandy (S)expert |
NEW QUESTION:
Mandy, I'm in my
mid-50's , my wife in her early 60's. She has Very little
interest in sex now. Is it Really wrong for me to fantasize
& relieve myself with these delicious looking girls on the web?
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| It's not
wrong unless it makes your wife feel bad in any way. Your shared sex
life does not have to be over just because your wife is in her 60's.
Maybe she just needs to feel young and beautiful again. Romance her
like you two were in your twenties again. Try and take her back to the
time you two first realized you were crazy in love. It's a good place
to start. There is always counselling and even some medications that
could help improve things further.
Mandy (S)expert |
NEW QUESTION:
After
my dad had a stroke in Minnesota we (Mom, Dad and I) moved to Dallas
to be near my brother. that was a wise move since after last
Thanksgiving Dad had a heart attack. Then Mom had two strokes a
day apart. Now Dad lives in an Alzheimer facility and I live in
a Senior residence with Mom. I do all of the driving. Mom
would be lost without me. In laste March 1996 I met someone at a
square dance. She gave me her home phone number. We became fast
friends and lovers. Four weeks after we met she had taken off her top
and bra so I could massage her. She felt so good the jeans came off
the next time we met. Five months later off came the panties. Last
November she dropped me. Please advise me how to find someone in
Dallas who will take off her clothes and let me give her a massage.
For how many people do you act as a central place to recieve mail?
Please inform me who they are and what they do.
Thank you
Miles
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| Unfortunately
I can't give out personal information on other emailers. If there is a
lady out there reading this that is interested, she can email me and I
can help you get in touch. Sorry to hear about your father. I hope he
is doing better. Getting to a point where someone is comfortable
enough to let you fondle them takes time. Some longer than others. I'm
guessing you're not interested in a cheap slut (if you are you can
find some random drunk girl at a bar or hire someone). You said you
met the last girl at a square dance. The more social activities you
are involved in the more chances you have of meeting people.Take it
from there. And of course there is always the wonderful internet. Hit
up some dating sites and/ or chat rooms.
Mandy (S)expert |
NEW QUESTION:
Sometimes I have a
problem getting off. It takes hours, what should i do?
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| Some of the things
that could cause your kind of problem is physical exertion, stress,
fatigue, hunger or dehydration. If all your basic physical needs are
met and you're a happy guy but still having trouble getting off maybe
you just need some better inspiration. Check out All
Access Reality
Mandy (S)expert |
| NEW QUESTION:
Hello Mandy, I would like my wife to get breast
enhancements and nipple piercings. Her naturals need a boost and I
think it would give her self confidence sexually? We are both in our
40's and healthy and active. What are your thoughts on
this?
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If she wants to get breast enhancements to improve
her look and if she thinks it will give her more self-confidence
then she should go for it. The main thing is it has to be her choice.
I'd advise against suggesting it if she hasn't brought it up herself.
If you have the audacity to do it without her bringing it up first
then choose your words VERY CAREFULLY. Just imagine how you'd want
to be told about the possibility of you getting say....a penis
enlargement so that your penis gets a boost.
Mandy (S)expert
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hey mandy, got a quick question fo ya, if my girl squirts like a water
hose is that a good thang?
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| You must be doing something
right.
Mandy (S)expert |
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Hello mandy, well my gf is a size 34 A and i wont to know if it would
be smart to talk her into plastic sugery?
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| Would it be smart for her to talk you into a penis
enlargement? And if she is weak-willed enough to give in to you then you
may regret it. Sure, you'll enjoy her new titties but then so will all
the other guys she runs into. Think about it: random strangers staring
at her breasts and drooling. You may like it. But then with her new
breasts she has a new-found confidence and realises she could do better
than you.
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Hey Mandy
First of all, I think all the advice you give is great. But here goes,
I havent had sex yet, im still young. So, I was wondering if you could
give some general tips on how to make a girl experience the most
pleasure possible...for example how you or many girls like to be
orally stimulated...also, i know this may sound dumb, but i notice you
replied to one mailers message saying the g-spot is only 3 inches
inside of a girl, but could you tell me specifically or generally
where it is?
Thanks a lot, hope to hear from you soon
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| Deciding to have sex for the first time is a big decision and
you must make sure you really are ready blah blah blah. Ok, enough of
that. You're about to experience one of the greatest human pleasures.
It's almost guaranteed to be better for you than it is for her. But
don't let this make you nervous. It's good that you're even concerned
about her pleasure at all. That shows some level of maturity. There are
many men out there that are selfish in bed. I can't speak for all women
but I know what drives me wild when my boyfriend licks my pussy. He'll
lick and suck on my clit and then finger me while he does it. What
really makes me come is when I feel his tongue moving about furiously at
my pussy hole like it wants to come in. As for finding her G-spot, it's
not too hard. If my boyfriend could find it anyone could. (Although it's
amazing, some women can't find their own. This has more to do with the
problems some females have with their own sexuality). Put you finger
inside her and bend it slightly so it becomes like a kind of hook- kinda
like Jim Carrey's 'claw' in Liar Liar. Let's say she is laying on her
back, you want to make sure that hook is facing up. You gently rub the
underside of what would be the 'ceiling' of the vagina when she is
laying down. What you feel should be a soft, spongy area. Communication
is ultra important in sex so talk to each other. She'll guide you in
your quest to find it by telling you what feels good. Good luck.
Mandy (S)expert |
Hi mandy,
i am ** year old boy.I am vey posessive about sex. I masturbate a lot , about twice a
week. Tell me if there are any ill effets of masturbating or is that
harmfull to me.tell me if this can lead to any serious problem further in my life.Please help me out???
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| Long ago they used to say masturbating would lead to
blindess, hairy palms, eternal damnation etc etc. Of course
no reasonable person believes any of that today. There are
no ill effects caused by masturbation. The only things it
will lead to is a better understanding of your body and the
release of sexual tension. If you ever feel bad about it
just remind yourself that everyone either masturbates
regularly or has masturbated quite a few times before. Even
the richest most powerful people in the world. Just tell
yourself that (insert government leader's name here) is
probably doing it right now. Enjoy!
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Hello Dear Mandy,
My name is Farid. Me and my girl friend adore each other and
almost cannot be separated.
However, we have sexual problems:
- I have my orgasm fast, before she does
- I love to have prolonged orgasms; I love it when I
please her many times before my orgasm but this seems not
to happen
- The best position that ensures me a (bit) longer time
before orgasm is when she is on the top even though we
both like to make love in different other positions
- I do not seem to touch her deep inside where it pleases
her the most (maybe my penis is short, or not long enough??)-
I donno
- She many times gets pains in her lower belly preventing
her from intercourse
- She gets her period sometimes 2-3 times per month esp.
when she is under stress or tension
Mandy, I do need your help. I love my woman and want to
please her to the maximum. Thanks in advance.
Farid.
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| What is very concerning is that your girlfriend endures
pain during intercourse and seems to get her period 2-3 times
a month. If it were just an issue of pain I would say there is
a chance that she might have a sexual pain disorder like
Dyspareunia. Pain disorders are treatable and aren't usually
indicators of serious physical problems. What is most worrying
is that she bleeds 2-3 times a month. Assuming this is true
(and she isn't just making excuses to not sleep with you) then
she may have some serious health issues. Periods don't
normally come 2-3 times a month. She should have herself
checked out at her family physician or gynecologist.
Your
penis may not be too short. There are different positions you
can try to get your penis to hit the right spot. Doggy style
with her torso as perpindicular to the floor as it can get. Or
have her sit at the edge of the bed then lay down so her back
is on the bed and her legs are hanging down. The go between
her and insert your penis. In this position you can hold her
legs up. You can rest her feet on your shoulders and she can
tilt her pelvis upward. Doing it in this position will make
sure you hit the right spot regardless of the size of your
penis. My boyfriend's penis is just a little above average
length and when we do it like that it's almost too much for me.
If you feel like you're going to come too early just pull out.
What you can do also is practice, practice, practice.
Masturbate as much as you can and see how long it takes to
come and what you can do to yourself to stop it. Go ahead and
experiment. There's lots of great porn pics at link that can
help.
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Hey Mandy
I'm a big fan, and I like the
advice you give. I have been going out with my girlfriend for
a while now, and I love her. I want to have sex with her, but
I sense that she is uncomfortable with that because before she
met me she was raped by a guy. Is there any way I can make her
feel comfortable enough to have sex with me?
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| First of all,
don't pressure her. It seems like the incident wasn't too long
ago so give her some time. It could be a matter of months before
she feels comfortable being intimate with anyone again. The best
thing you can do is see to it that she gets the help she needs
because there is a good chane this is not only affecting her sex
life but her general mental state. I volunteer at a local rape
crisis line and I'm sure your city has one like it. Check your
local phone book. It would be a great place for her to turn and
for you as well.
Mandy (S)expert |
How can I make my penis
thicker? Thanks.
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| If
you really need to make it thicker you can try a penis
pump
or penis
pills. I don't know for sure if either
works.
Mandy (S)expert |
Dear mandy
just wondering, when i go down on my girl should I lick her clit,
side to side, figure eight, up and down or a combination of
everything? and everytime we're having sex now and then i feel a
warm gush while im pentrating her, does this mean she has
reached orgasm?
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| Lick
her how she wants to be licked. You need to communicate with
each other. All those ways you mentioned seemed pretty good. See
her reaction when you try each way and you'll see which way she
llikes best. You can also ask her while you do it. As for the
gush, do you feel her muscles contract when it happens? That's a
sure way to tell.
Mandy (S)expert |
sup?
need some help I have to fuck.
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Hey Mandy,
I have been with my girlfriend for a while and weve started
having sex. I've noticed that she has a really big vagina. Does
this mean shes had sex with a lot of guys or that shes just had
guys with really big dicks or what?
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| It
could mean either one. It can also mean she has had a child or
children. It could also just be the way she was built. Vaginas,
like penises and cars, come in many different sizes (and even
some varying shapes).
Mandy (S)expert |
Hi Mandy,
What's up, I'm a big fan. I luv the advice and I think this new
section of the site is fab!!! I have one question which I know
you've heard a hundread times before. What do you think a really
nice size for a penis is? I don't mean the average, I mean, what
size do girls want, FOR REAL!!!!
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| Okay,
here's the deal: it depends on the girl REALLY! Just like guys
have different lengths, girls have different sizes too. The
woman's experience also counts for something as well. 5"
may be perfect for a girl who has not done it often and/or is
petite. 9" may not even be good enough for some women (perhaps
if she's had a few children). The best way you can judge how big
is big enough is by watching her frame and knowing her sexual
history. Based on those two things you may be able to get a good
idea. Now if I were to go by how big the average woman is
(5'5") and assuming that she is not a major skank then I
think 6-7 inches should be good enough for her. Of course, not
every woman you meet will fit this criteria. Just like not every
man a woman meets is the perfect size for them.
Mandy (S)expert |
Hey Mandy,
I am very much in love with my girl. She is everything I could ever
want,
not to mention the sex is awesome. My question for you is this.. She is very
quiet during sex, and it's difficult for me to know if I am pleasing
her.
She always tells me "No complaints handsome" but just once I want to hear her
scream my name, any suggestions?
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| Some women just
aren't very vocal whether or not they are being pleased. I know I
personally feel a little bit phony when I make too much noise.
Don't expect it to be like a porn movie. All their screaming,
moaning and groaning is pure acting. Communication is important
however. Wouldn't it be better to have her silent and KNOW you are
pleasing her than have her faking pleasure like the girls in the
porn movies? Come right out and ask her if there is anything she
thinks you can do better. Let her know you wouldn't be hurt by her
suggestions. You want to make the experience better for her.
Experiment with positions. Look into some books on the topic. Try
some of the positions I mention below. Also, let her know you'd
like her to tell you when you are doing a good job. You obviously
need positive reinforcement in the form of oohing and aahing. Just
as she needs to tell you what she likes you need to do the same.
Mandy (S)expert |
Hi Mandy, I am 25
years old and I have a 14 year old brother I find him looking at
porn all the time but I have not mentioned this to anybody
including him. I was wondering if you knew a way for him to stop
looking up porn on the internet and find another way to look at
porn(he looks at boobs)
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| This is the age at
which boys first start to become really interested in sex and
exploring with masturbation. Just think back to what it was like
that be that age. It seems you are only concerned with him viewing
internet porn. Porn is porn where ever it may be. It's not clear
how close you two are and if the lines of communication are open
in such a way that you would be able to talk to him about this. It
is pretty common for boys his age to look at porn on the internet
and in magazines. When you were his age you probably just had
magazines. Maybe you can share some of these with him. And let him
know why you think they're better than internet porn. This can be
a good learning experience for him and he can open up if he knows
he can trust you and that what you two discuss will stay between
you two.
Mandy (S)expert |
hiya,
What is the best position in which to have sex to please a woman?
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| The best position
would be one that allows that penis to hit the g-spot effectively.
What I find works like a charm is doggy style. Have your girl get
on all fours. For better g-spot stimulation she can get off her
hands and have her back a little more erect so that her torso is
almost parallel with the bedroom wall. In this position you can
also reach around and stimulate her clitoris manually for a little
extra wow. If you're a traditional kind of guy and enjoy
missionary then try elevating her hips with pillows so she can
enjoy it as much as you do. A couple pillow or cushion under her
lower back and buttocks enables you to better hit that magical
g-spot. Enjoy!
Mandy (S)expert |
I got a
question. My girlfriend thinks im cheating on her with another guy,
what should I do?
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| Well, if you
really are cheating on her with another guy then the cat is
already out of the bag and the only thing you can do is to come
clean. However, if you're not cheating on her you need to find out
what it is you're doing that makes her think that you're cheating
on her with another guy. Maybe you're not paying as much attention
to her as you used to and hanging out too much with the guys. The
solution could be as simple as paying her some more attention.
Mandy (S)expert |
Hi Mandy,
There is this really hot girl that I like. She has huge tits and a
nice tight pussy. But after our first time doing it together, I'm
not as attracted to her anymore, while she likes me more that ever.
Is it time to find another girl, or should I wait and see what
happens between us?
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| Why did you like her in the first
place? And ask yourself why you're not attracted to her anymore.
Was it just the thrill of the conquest that drew you to her or
were you genuinely attracted to her as a person? Or perhaps you
were originally just attracted to her big boobs and tight pussy
and then came to find out that you don't like the person that's
attached to the boobs and the pussy. In finding another girl what
would you be looking for? If you're just looking for hot sex then
you can get that from anyone including this girl. Just make sure
she knows that the nature of the relationship is strictly sexual.
If you're looking for something more meaningful, the fact that
you're having these feelings alone indicate that this is not the
person for you. Let her down gently and begin your search for
someone else with big boobs and a tight pussy that can satisfy
your needs.
Mandy (S)expert |
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Sure, just close your eyes and fall asleep.
Mandy (S)expert |
Hey baby, I got a
quick question... is a 5 inch cock too small?
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| Five inches is two inches more than what
you really need to please your woman. What you may not know is that a
woman's most sensitive area in the vagina only extends 3 inches passed
the opening. Three inches of penis is sufficient. What is sometimes
more important than length is how thick that piece of meat is. As long
as you use that badboy well you should be able to please your woman.
Mandy (S)expert |
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